tips for parent child relationship

Relationships are all about communication on every level - through words, body language,thoughts and feelings.we should spend quality time with our kids to build a strong relationship and effective parenting rather than tell them what not to do, teach and show them what they should do.When parents develop effective parenting skills, they are able to take the initiative in filling the generation gap.


Tips for parent child relationship

• Try to set aside Quality time on a regular basis to do something fun with your children.
• Use descriptive praise when they do something well. 
• Help your child learn to express how he feels.its the only way to find out their feelings.
• Try to see a situation the way your children do. Listen carefully to them.
• Use a soft, confident tone of voice to redirect them when they are upset.
• Be a good listener: Use good eye contact with them.
• Look for gradual changes in behavior. Don’t expect too much. Praise behavior that is coming closer to the desired goal.
• Be sure to praise him for each success during practice as well as when the program starts.
• Positive parenting techniques work well for raising children with discipline and good moral values
• Never disagree about discipline in front of the children.
• Never give an order, request, or command without being able to enforce it at the time.
• Be consistent, that is, reward or punish the same behavior in the same manner as much as possible.
• Agree on how to respond to undesirable behavior.
• Make it as clear as possible what the child is to expect if he or she performs the undesirable behavior.
• Look for gradual changes in behavior. Don’t expect too much. Praise behavior that is coming closer to the desired goal.
• Remember that your behavior serves as a model for your children’s behavior.
• If one of you is disciplining a child and the other enters the room, that other person should not step in on the argument in progress.
• Reward desirable behavior as much as possible by verbal praise, touch or something tangible such as a toy, food or money.
• Parents encourage through praise and celebration of accomplishments.
• Help your child learn how to express frustration, disappointment and anger without hurting others or retreating into sullenness.
• We can help our children grow independent and flourish by giving them some task according to their age like dress themselves as they grow older, tie their own shoes,pack school snacks, make lunches the night before, set their own alarm clocks instead of waking them up, and having children put away their books and organizing themselves.